We Value Peace

On Sunday April 23, 2017 we started our Teaching Series on our seven Values. Everyone of our values has a story behind it that captures a moment in time where a word becomes something more. Our first story was for the value of Peace.

Peace is actually our newest value. We added it when we were still an independent church. We felt like we needed to be better at navigating interpersonal conflicts and personality clashes. We wanted to be good peacemakers with each other as a family, so we added Peace to our list of values as a way of making us accountable to that desire. Once we joined Mennonite Church Eastern Canada (MCEC) as our wider tribe, the word “peace” began to have other more global implications.

Shortly after joining the Mennonites we had a very scary and violent incident happen to one of our people and it became a catalyst for us trying to learn more about how to “do peace” rather than just say “we value peace”. It is a story that starts with a physical window but turns into a metaphorical window to help us rookie peacemakers dig a little deeper into practicing peace.

Here is a recording of Randell Neudorf telling our Peace Story:

We are still on this journey of figuring out how to practically be Peacemakers. We are definitely not the experts, but we are trying to learn.

We have some friends from Christian Peacemaker Teams (CPT) who have been teaching us how to Practice Peace. They are the folks that go into war zones and stand in front of people with Guns trying to find new ways to solve conflicts. We really believe that some of CPT’s practices can be translated for our everyday local context.

CPT has a helpful definition for Violence and Nonviolence that we have been using:

  • Violence Is power that Dominates, Dehumanizes, Diminishes, and Destroys. It does this to Selves, Others, and Nature.
  • Nonviolence is power that Liberates, Humanizes, Heals, and Creates. It does this to Selves, Others, and Nature.

CPT folks spend a lot of time practicing, and roll playing situations they might find themselves in. When confronted with violence, hate or hurt we naturally jump towards one of two responses: fight or flight. People and movements of peace have to practice a Third Way Response.  An Active Non Violent Response.

  • It is Active because we don’t want to just avoid the bad powers of Violence (that Dominate, Dehumanize, Diminish, and Destroy)
  • It is Active because we want to build up the good powers of Non-Violence. (that Liberates, Humanizes, Heals, and Creates)

When Christian Civil Rights leaders organized peaceful protests (in the face of hate and violence) they took the time to practice being peacemakers. They would act out situations they thought they might come up against to practice how to be an active nonviolent force for peace (in the face of horrible racism, injustice and violence).

Acting out situations to learn how to be peacemakers is part of our Christian Heritage. Sometimes it is called “Theatre of the Oppressed.”

When we act a situation out we often have 3 types of characters.

  • Aggressors – the person acting out in violence
  • Victims (Oppressed Person)– the people the violence is directed to.
  • Peacemakers – the people trying to intervene.

The Point of the exercise is to remember that everyone is made in the image of God (the Aggressor, The Oppressed, The Peacemaker). Taking on the roll of each of these characters is so important.

When acting as the…

  • Peacemaker – We get to try out solutions and see what happens.
  • The Oppressed Person – We walk a little in their shoes and start to learn what they would want to happen, what they want to change.
  • Aggressor – We get to feel their emotions and their thoughts, and we even find ourselves feeling some empathy and love for the people we disagree with. This helps us learn to reach out to them.

We ended the gathering acting out some situations that involved Verbal Violence and going through some peace building exercises. We would highly encourage anyone interested in learning more about peace to approach it as a practical discipline.

If you are interested we would be happy to help facilitate a workshop or gathering for your church, youth group or community center. We have developed an interactive curriculum called Peacemaker Boot Camp as a fun and hands on way to introduce the value of Peace as a practical tool for our everyday lives.

To learn more,
contact Randell from The Commons:

email:  thecommonschurch@gmail.com
phone: 905-379-3717

Click on the images below to for the other talks in Our Values Series:

Prayers for the Coptic Church

Last night at The Commons we had a beautiful Palm Sunday Gathering. Old friends stopped by and new friends showed up as well. Our little room was packed and there was an amazing energy in the room. This morning I read in the Hamilton Spectator that this was not the case for our brothers & sisters in the Coptic Church. We grieve with you, and our prayers are for you.